If you’re looking for a sweet and mind-blowing experience in bed, it’s important to pay attention to your body, and to your partner’s. Rather than just jumping straight into the act, take some time to get familiar with those distant parts of your bodies that turn you on. You might be surprised how great the results can be. However, if you’re considering your feet, don’t waste your time. Recent research shows that, despite the popular myth, the feet are neither particularly sexy nor all that sensual. Instead, focus on these six nice erogenous zones that you’ve been neglecting for way too long….
Although ears contain a ton of tiny nerve endings that send pleasurable responses to the brain, they receive very little attention in their day to day; this makes them an even hotter spot to stimulate during sexy time. Still, not everyone is comfortable with full tongue-to-ear penetration so the trick is to start off start off slowly and work your way up to more full ear contact.
Start by lightly tracing the C-shaped outline of your partner’s ear with your fingertips or with your tongue. Gently kiss her earlobe or hold it lightly in your mouth and massage it with your lips. If she seems okay with this, you can take it as a green light to start to nibble or suck on the lobe. Once you become more comfortable with the landscape, try combining all of these moves together and every once and while, work your tongue into the center of her ear for a surprising but pleasurable sensation.
Another great way to stimulate this spot is with sound! Never underestimate the power of a low moan or a sultry whisper sent directly (but softly) into her ear canal to drive her mad with desire.
One of the most erotic areas of a woman’s body, the mouth takes in pheromone-loaded tastes and smells that serve as hormonal hors d’oeuvres to make her hungry for more. Try gently caressing her lips with your finger—she may find this exhilarating—or spend at least five minutes varying the strength and intensity of your kissing. Deep red lips signal arousal.
Although men have been paying very special attention to nipple for years, it’s remarkable how few men know how to pleasure them to their full potential. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as touch to the clitoris and vagina, making it a key part of the holy trinity of female pleasure.
While gently massaging your partner’s breast with one hand, use your fingers or tongue to lightly trace the area around the areola, before placing your open mouth on her nipple. Try using your lips to softly hold the nipple in your mouth and run your tongue back and forth over it; use your lips and tongue to massage the area, paying attention to her bodily cues to determine what she likes best.
Besides licking and sucking, you can also use a clitoral vibrator on a low setting to lightly massage her nipples, as they are very sensitive to vibrations
Behind Her Knees
You thought it was just ticklish, but the skin behind her knees is a sexualhotspot when she is aroused. Even if she finds it ticklish at first, just wait, and try using a firmer touch to stimulate the pressure-sensitive nerve endings. Many women find it wildly exciting when you work on the entire back of their leg, tracing your fingers down the thighs and then nibbling and kissing behind the knee.
Her Neck and Throat
When you sensually touch the nape of her neck or throat, it feels very intimate and can really trigger her desire. Because the body flexes here, the skin is thinner and the blood vessels are closer to the surface, which means it can take her closer to ecstasy. Try standing behind her, slowly massaging her shoulders, and leave a trail of kisses along her neck.
After your tongue, the tips of your fingertips are the second most sensitive parts of you body. Try having your lover massage them, lick them or run his teeth along them. It sends sexy signals directly to your brain that can have you going wild within minutes.